Interesting thing: whatever labels you keep repeating to a person, that is who they will become, especially your children. So if you keep calling someone thoughtful, considerate, beautiful, and kind they will become those things. If you keep calling someone lazy, selfish, inconsiderate, and ugly they will become those things too.
Consider this: The human body is made up mostly of water. There was an experiment done with water by Masaru Emoto in which he attached or exposed water to different words like love and gratitude to You make me sick or music like Beethoven or Heavy Metal. In these experiments he found that water reacted to whatever he exposed to it. (See the images I attach to this post.)
If words and music can do this to WATER imagine what it can do to people...
Words, while not as deadly as a bullet or other forms of weapons, are still quite powerful and dangerous if not used with care. Words, once spoken, can never be erased so be careful what you say to others. Sometimes when one is so focused on winning an argument, they lose something else.
So ask yourself: Is winning this argument worth hurting a person I care about? What are my words doing to those people I say that I love?
